Hello there everyone!
If I had to ask you if your partner makes you happy, really happy, what would your answer be?
Your answer should be “The fact that I am happy or not, doesn’t depend on anyone else but me!”
You see, you make the choice to be happy in each situation and in each moment of your life. If your happiness were to depend on other people, on other things or circumstances, you would be in serious trouble!
Everything that exists in this life changes constantly; humans, wealth, your body, the climate, pleasures etc. The list is infinite. I have learned a few things during my life. We decide to be happy and the rest is a matter of experiences or circumstances, like helping and understanding, accepting, listening and consoling. Happiness will always be found in forgiveness and loving yourself and others.
It is not the responsibility of anyone else to make you happy….. they also have their own experiences or circumstances. People change, you change, the environment changes. Having forgiveness and true love, and observing these changes, they can be big or little, but change always happens and we must face these changes with the love that exists in each of us. If we love and forgive each other, the changes will only be experiences or circumstances that enrich us and give us strength.
To truly love is difficult. It is to forgive unconditionally, to live, to take the experiences or circumstances as they are, facing them together and being happy with conviction.
There are those who say “I cannot be happy because I am sick, because I have no money, because it is too cold, because they insulted me, because someone stopped loving me, because someone didn’t appreciate me!” What you don’t know is is that you can be happy even though you are sick, whether it is too hot, whether you have money or not, whether someone has insulted you, or someone didn’t love you or someone didn’t value you.
BEING HAPPY is an attitude about life and each one of us must decide! BEING HAPPY depends on you!
Makes you think, doesn’t it?
Until next time………..
Love, light and hugs,
Doris
