Healing

Hello dear friends……

Wishing you all a wonderful, prosperous New Year filled with endless possibilities and abundance!

Today I want to talk about healing…….

My husband was diagnosed with cancer in his bladder about 18 months ago. The urologist removed the malignant growth and was very confident that he got it all. Subsequent tests were initially clear but then the cancer came back in a different place, twice!! I believe the cancer keeps manifesting itself because of a past event or events that he hasn’t dealt with on an emotional level, and until he does, this disease will keep returning. If he can believe and trust the power of his Unconscious Mind, he will heal and this horrible dis-ease will never return! I am currently working with him on this…..

Your body can and does heal itself! When you cut yourself or graze your knee, what happens? Your mind sends a message to that part of your body through your neurological system and it immediately starts the process of healing. Now, when a significant emotional event happens in your life and you attach a meaning to it that doesn’t serve you, it causes a blockage somewhere in your body and the healing message doesn’t get through. The message is diverted and ends up in another part of your body and creates confusion, causing dis-ease.

Let me explain myself…….

When a past significant, emotional event happens, you attach a meaning to it according to your beliefs and value system at the time. Remember, an event has no meaning until YOU give it meaning. Because one of the prime directives of the Unconscious Mind is to preserve the body, it files it away until it feels you are ready to deal with it. Very often you think you have, but in reality you haven’t! This is why sometimes, things that have happened in the past, pop into you head every now and again and you just push it aside. Has this ever happened to you? This is because your inner filing system is getting full of unresolved, negative emotions, and your Unconscious Mind wants you to deal with it so that it can finally shred it!! This can only happen once you look at it differently, and get a positive learning from it (change the way you look at things, and the things you look at change). Only then can you move on….

For many ill people, the perfect, happy ending is elusive. I believe it’s because their faith and their belief in the power of their mind isn’t strong enough. The negative thoughts and doubts (no matter how small) that they have going on inside their heads are determining their outcome. You will often hear people say “it’s mind over matter”, this is a profound statement and to be taken seriously! It is human nature to hope for the quick reversal, the sudden recovery, but the path might be full of twists and turns and longer than expected. There may be lessons to be learned along the way, you just have to keep at it!

When it comes to transcending deep-seated problems, one of the most important keys is the willingness to change your most entrenched habits and beliefs – your un-serving behaviours, your unhappy job, your impossible schedule etc. You must let go of anything that is holding you back. The experience of stepping out of your comfort zone is almost always scary, but absolutely necessary if you are to heal and grow, and the rewards are limitless!

Makes you think, doesn’t it?

Until next time…..

Love, light and hugs,

Doris

 

 

 

Merry Christmas!

To all my dear family and friends…….

Merry Christmas and a Prosperous New Year!

May the year ahead bless you with abundance and an even deeper faith and belief in yourself. May you face your life lessons with even more courage, confidence and optimism. Have forgiveness in your heart for all those who have misjudged you and live your life filled with gratitude, love and humour. This is my wish for you……..

Make you think, doesn’t it?

Until next time………

Lots of love, light ans hugs,

Doris

Relationships

Hello again to all my dear friends and family……..

Today I am focusing on relationships and, once again, the Law of Attraction applies….

If you think you are lonely or unhappy and unfulfilled, you will be! The reverse is also true. If you choose to believe that you are happy and in a loving relationship then you are! You see, the transformation has to come from within. You must work on your relationship with yourself and become the person you want to attract into your life.

I mentioned in a previous post that that no one else can make you happy or complete you, only you can do that! Instead of focusing on NOT having, focus on everything that is POSITIVE in your life. Start with loving yourself more, and you will attract people and situations that bring joy, happiness and abundance into your life. Do you want to experience unconditional love? Then GIVE unconditional love! Do you want a fulfilling relationship? Then start with your relationship with yourself.

We are often told how we must treat other people, but what about how we treat ourselves? How often do we criticise and say harsh words to ourselves when we make a perceived mistake? We have to ask ourselves if we would treat our best friend or partner the same way? We wouldn’t, would we? So why do we treat ourselves that way? Let today be a totally new day. Be aware of your thoughts. Be patient with yourself, be encouraging and say loving and kind words to yourself and watch what happens!

Everyone you attract into your life is a reflection of your thoughts and emotions and you will easily manifest them, so keep those thoughts positive! You are wasting your valuable energy if you choose to punish yourself or think you’re unworthy. Stop berating yourself and start loving yourself!

My suggestion to you is to take time out for yourself. Go into your garden or to a park, reconnect with nature, be aware of and breathe in the beauty that surrounds us. Rejuvenate your soul! Let go of all the clutter and negative thoughts and emotions that are going on in your head, because they do not serve you, they bring you more negativity and turmoil!! Go within and reflect on everything that is good and wonderful in your life. You and I both know that there is so much to be grateful for – we just have to take the time and we will find what we are searching for……!

Makes you think, doesn’t it?

Until next time…….

Love, light and hugs,

Doris

Thought for Today

My hope and wish is that one day, formal education will pay attention to what I call “education of the heart.” Just as we take for granted the need to acquire proficiency in the basic academic subjects, I am hopeful that a time will come when we can take it for granted that children will learn, as part of the curriculum, the indispensability of inner values: love, compassion, justice, and forgiveness.
Dalai Lama